Are young Japanese women the most snobbish women in Asia?

Question

I have lived in Japan for 3 months now and I never got hooked with any Japanese woman. I never went to that club in Roppongi yet where they say that Japanese women are hunting for gaigin men. Besides most Japanese women really suck at basic English.

But I know a fellow from Jamaica who is engaged to get married to a Japanese woman, and I told them up front that no Japanese woman wants me. Not to mention religious differences, Most Japanese woman are not even Christian and if I do get a Japanese woman, I may have to drop out of the church. But I think the only women I am good for are those who are whorish, regardless of race or ethnicity.

If I go to Thailand women there are more likely to talk to me because they have better basic English skills. Women are more likely to also talk to me when I was in Korea, and I have met women from Vietnam and Indonesia who see me and say hello and can't speak English. Japanese women don't do that. But it's not only the language barrier. I feel that there is someting about young Japanese women that is causing them to be snobbish. One thing is that they don't talk to strangers which is why I have no friends in Japan so far. But generally like most northeast Asians, Japanese are like robots. That is what I see so far, so is it true that Japanese women are the most snobbish women in Asia?

Answer 1

Most Japanese women are very shy, we dont have the culture to talk to strangers, you should talk to us first.We can be very sweet and sincere friends for foreigners if you get to know us well once.Break the ice!

Answer 2

I think its unfair to simply dismiss Japanese women as being the most snobbish ones in Asia. You will sure find a fair share of snobbish women in other parts of Asia too but its just a matter of luck, coincidence and your attitude.



You mentioned that there are more Thai women who approached you because of their "better basic English skills". By this, I can imply that you probably expect people there to switch to English. What is the point of living overseas then? Since you intend to live overseas for a certain period of time, its better to respect and immerse yourself into their culture. Try to learn at least a few phrases of their language in order to speak to them, and I'm sure many foreigners, even the Japanese included, would appreciate and reciprocate your efforts.



Believe it or not, I took elementary Japanese lessons before going to Japan. It was really handy because when I was in Tokyo then, I found myself being able to ask for directions and having small talk with some Japanese without much difficulty.



And lastly, when you're overseas, go with an open mind. Learn to accept that there will always be socio-cultural differences from your country, and you will not be in for too much of a shock.

Answer 3

You are in Japan, maybe you should learn Japanese? Why must the world comform to you and speak English? Hmm that's a thought, then you don't have to stay around Roppongi all the time.



>>Most Japanese woman are not even Christian and if I do get a Japanese woman, I may have to drop out of the church. <<



AND WHO'S FAULT IS THAT? Yours!

Also who says you have to drop out of Church? I know a Christian guy married to a Jewish lady, he goes to Church just fine!

Answer 4

you shouldn't assume that japanese women are snobs only because you haven't gone on a date with one...if the only girls you can hook up with are the 'whorish' ones, you have to consider that there are a lot of barriers between your culture and their own, and the fact that not all japanese women are throwing themselves at you, it sounds to me like there are more descent ones than 'whores' - asian people are very respectful and embrasive of their culture and love isn't like candy that you can go to different store and walk out of there with like 2 bags of it



and as to the religion thing...if you're looking for a nice christian asian lady, you should try south korea - most people there are christian and are opened about their beliefs, but it's not true that japanese ladies aren't christian, my friend chika from okinawa is a christian

Answer 5

Are you kidding me? You're in Japan and telling me that Japanese women's English suck.

Why don't you respect their culture and try to learn few Japanese words?

Your attitude will not get you anywhere in Japan.

Answer 6

Try Marunouchi instead of Roppongi.

Answer 7

You must be a real loser then. I was stationed there for 4 years, went to a club near the okohama girl's colege. I had more poon offered than I could handle.



Saturday night, me and 2 friends, 5 drunk japanese men at the bar, 200 girls looking to dance. Only hitch is it cost 100 us and you better be in a jacket, nice shirt and tie.

Answer 8

Stay in Amerrca!